double-standardees .... don't talk to me!!

when a guy wouldn't shake my hand in uni because he thinks it's wrong (or even 7aram), I wouldn't really mind it, it's actually a lot more comfortable for me to walk into a group of people and just say hi without having to pass hi fives to every single person sitting! and besides, I respect everyone's beliefs (no I have no buhdist friends) but you know what I mean...
I know poeple who have suddenly out of the blue grown beards and started acting religious all of the sudden, maybe because they really want to change for the better, but personally I vote for peer pressure, most of these people have no idea what so ever about religion! or maybe they do.. who am I to say??? go ahead, grow a beard, stop hanging around with your girlfriends, bang you head with a hammer and create a zebeebet sala (if you think that only having it is worth the thawab) if it's turning you into a good person then by all means be my guest, I'll be happy for you more than anyone else....
but here's what ticks me off:
one of those "religious" guys is in a foreign country, and guess what? hot babes, no rules, no one looks at you if you hold a girl's hand, hell no one even looks at you if you stick your tongue down her throat! and all of the sudden he turns into this really cool guy; girls are all he hangs out with, he's giving friendly flicks and slaps, he's taking pictures with them and they're like all over him, one under his arm, one around his neck one on his lap for heaven's sake!
okay, so he couldn't resist the temptation, well he's only human afer all, and I shouldn't be judging someone when I'm not perfect (is anyone?)
but the story gets more interesting!
the minute he sets foot home, he's back to being Mr decent again, no shaking hands, grows his beard, it's like he left that other cool guy in that country. but one thing he actually takes home: attitude!!!!
suddenly all the girls in masr are "sanadel" and shabasheb" and "ento fakreen nafsoko banat?"
ya3ni howa ely bro7 ommo ragel???... sorry people.... but I just hate guys who have different standards, who think they can just flip back and forth between personalities! just like guys who've had more girlfriends that they can remember but they wouldn't let their sisters even talk to their guy classmates on the phone!
c'mon, if you're okay with yourself doing somehting wrong, then you might as well be okay with others doing it...
so to all of you double-standardees, tell me why it's "accepted" for a guy to smoke, get high or even get laid, but if a girl does it she's a bitch! there's no discrimination in right and wrong, what's wrong for a girl is wrong for both a guy and a girl! why don't you people get that???
so to my friend (or should I say not really anymore) who got sucked in the foreign life, may I tell you I shall never look at you the same way again. I don't wanna shake your hand when I see you, to tell the truth I don't really wanna see you at all... not until you're honest with yourself at least!